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The
Interview
During the initial phase of the interview,
the interviewer does the majority of the talking,
explaining about the position, the company and other
general information. At this stage positive body language works
to your advantage. Be cautious about transmitting
any negative non-verbal messages. The interviewer
will catch them from your eyes, face, and upper body.
Some do's and don'ts in an interview
| Do's |
Don'ts |
| Sit upright with your bottom and back against
the back of the chair. |
Slouch. This portrays a defeatist attitude |
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At any point in the interview, fold
your arms or cross your legs. This creates a subconscious
barrier, portraying a defensive, reserved persona.
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| Keep your hands on your lap or the arms of
the chair, moving them only to emphasize a point,
such as opening palms (no secrets), or forming
a steeple when thinking about a tricky question
(thoughtfulness). |
Place your hands on the table in front of
you. Your hands can give out many negative signals,
such as tapping your nails on the table (impatience),
rubbing your collar (nervous), adjusting your tie
(insecurity). |
| Avoid the impression of staring by occasionally
averting your gaze either to the right or left,
never down, as this will give the impression of
disbelief, submissiveness, and a lack of confidence.
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Lose eye contact. This will display disinterest
and disrespect. Never close your eyes as this places
a barrier between you and the interviewer |
| Nod slowly. This portrays a feeling of
interest/understanding and acceptance of comments.
It will also encourage the interviewer to continue.
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Nod your head excessively. this will give
the impression of impatience. The interviewer
may feel that you are anxious to make a point. |
| Along with the slow nod, occasionally
tilt your head slightly, while maintaining eye
contact and smiling, this will show the interviewer
that your are of a friendly and approachable.
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Smile excessively. As this suggests insincerity. |
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Laugh louder than the interviewer. |
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